Hey guys welcome back to the show! I am recording this in May of 2024 – and everyone’s talking about their upcoming summer! I think as working moms, summer has this romantic fantasy that just doesn’t come true for us. We still have to work, we still have to mom, but now we have more of them happening at the same time.

Don’t get me wrong, I think a lot of us really enjoy the weather, a nice week-long summer vacation, and I know I totally get my cup filled by going to the beach. But my point is that as a working mom, I need to be super intentional about my summer in order to make it as enjoyable as possible.

And I think the same goes for marriage. We love to talk to our significant others about all the plans we want to make for the summer, the vacations we want to go on, etc. But none of that is fun if we are not enjoying the marriage.

Going on vacation but fighting the whole time sucks. Having extra time off but not using any of it to connect sucks. Going to the beach but just stressing the whole time because you’re not getting along sucks.

At the heart of our quality of life is quality of relationships. My vision for you is to have the kind of summer where you look back on it and say “we worked hard to become more connected and as a result, we had more fun.”

Think about it, what would it be like to go on that summer vacation and feel excited about spending time with your partner? Sneaking off to make out when the kids aren’t looking… having some deep conversations and re-connecting.

This is available to you, but you gotta be willing to put the work in. What work you ask? Well, leave that part to me. I’ve picked up a thing or two over the past 20 years and I know what really moves the needle. Here are the steps you need to go through.

The first thing is you have to make a decision that you’re going to actively work on the marriage. That means get some help. It also means that you are willing to look at your own contribution to the marital issues as well as process how your partner affects you. But that’s the only part you need to do on your own – make the decision.

Once you’ve made the decision and let’s just say you make the smart decision to come work with me, things begin to shift immediately. Partly because you’ve made a decision to not settle and you took action – that’s POWERFUL. But also you will be consuming content that will change the way you think about yourself, your partner, and your marriage. You will get a fresh mindset and things will change for you.

My work is obviously personalized for whatever you’re struggling with but there are always some common denominators. Every woman I’ve ever worked with needs to work through her own thoughts, feelings, and expectations of her partner. Then she needs to learn how to be vulnerable in a way that feels safe. And lastly, she needs to learn how to communicate effectively. These are the foundational pieces of any healthy marriage; intention, vulnerability, and communication.

And I know it sounds like it would take forever to get this foundation down but actually you’d be surprised. And I want to prove it to you.

That’s why I’m offering a special price with a special offer for the summer. It’s called the Summer Lovin’ Sale. If you sign up to work with me before May 20th, you’ll be summer lovin’ on your boo by August!

The day you sign up you get access to my entire premium course. So you can start feeling better right away. Then you join my small group where you meet other women who are working on their marriages as well. These women are striving to be the best versions of themselves. A support system like that is invaluable.

And of course the personalized touch of 1:1 sessions and private messaging with me. I practice Causal Coaching. That means that we don’t spend too much time talking about the symptoms, we get right down to the cause of the marital issues. We clean up the wound so that you don’t need anymore Band-Aids.

Sign up by May 20th and by June you’ll be feeling relaxed and clear about your goals and exactly how you will achieve them. By July, you’ll be practicing healthy communication with your partner and by August your kids will have parents who are lovin on each other.   

Right now, if you sign up for my program: Master Your Marriage & Your Mind, you get to join at the alumni rate. That’s $600 off for the first three months. The reason I’m making this offer is because I want everyone to get a taste of what it’s like when you approach your marriage with a healthy mindset. When you’re not afraid to show up authentically. When you don’t’ sweep things under the rug. When you have the support you need to handle difficult situations in a way that feels good to you.

This is what relationship coaching is like with me. I’m lovingly blunt and I won’t waste your time. So if you’re ready to make this the summer that changes everthing for you and your husband, click on the link in the shownotes and get more info and sign up! And if you have any specific questions, you can DM me on IG @partnershipaligned or email me at Elana@nullpartnershipaligned.com